Leaving An Abusive Relationship

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Dear ladies, a guy who raises his hand to strike you, doesn’t deserve you. If he actually valued you, he wouldn’t do anything to spoil your pretty face or leave you with bruises.

Dear guys, if you’re with a lady you’re constantly beating, you do not deserve her. The pain that’s being inflicted on her should be a sort of constraint for you. If you really loved her, you wouldn’t bear to see her in pain. Apologizing doesn’t really make things better because the memory of that moment would always be in her mind. An abusive relationship can be life changing. One thing you’ve gotta work on before going into a relationship is yourself. Do you have anger issues or get jealous easily? Then work on it and don’t leave your partner in a position where they get vented at.

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Ladies in an abusive relationship, it’s not gonna get better if he abuses you verbally or has hit you more than three times. Enough with hoping he’ll change, maybe it’s time for you to leave and move on to someone who deserves you and wouldn’t abuse you for what you look like or for dreaming too big or for whatever you love about yourself or love doing. You are beautiful and deserved to be loved. You deserve more than an abusive relationship. Maybe it’s time for you to get a brand new you and sing Jamelia’s thank you (See lyrics below) Think about it!

The fights, those nights
I tried to pretend it don’t hurt
The way, I prayed
Someday that you would love me
Really, completely
Just how I wanted it to be
But no, so wrong
Can’t believe I stayed with you so long
[B-Chorus:]
You hit, you spit, you split, ever-y bit of me, yeah
You stole, you broke, you’re cold
You’re such a joke to me, yeah
[Chorus:]
For every last bruise you gave me
For every time I sat in tears
For the million ways you hurt me
I just wanna tell you this
You broke my world, made me strong
Thank you
Messed up my dreams, made me strong
Thank you
[Verse 2:]
My head, near dead
Just the way you wanted it
My soul, stone cold
Cos I was under you’re control
So young, so dumb
Knew just how to make me succumb
But I understand
To make yourself feel like a man
[B-Chorus:]
You hit, you spit, you split, ever-y bit of me, yeah
You stole, you broke, you’re cold
You’re such a joke to me, yeah
[Chorus:]
For every last bruise you gave me
For every time I sat in tears
For the million ways you hurt me
I just wanna tell you this
You broke my world, made me strong
Thank you
Messed up my dreams, made me strong
Thank you
[Middle eight:]
You coulda had it all babe
It coulda been so right
I woulda given you everything
Morning through night
Yeah, you taught me some lessons
Those are my blessings
That won’t happen again
Thank you
[Chorus till end]

Xoxo 🙂

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