Dear Son: A Message From RMD

a message from rmd

I saw a message from RMD when I was scrolling through my Instagram feed yesterday (@mystique_dammy). Actor Richard Mofe Damijo called RMD penned a message for ‘his son’. This has to be one of the best speeches ever. Message of the year perhaps? If you’re regular here, you probably know how I rant about some of the problems youths have in this generation. See here and here for a bit of my rant. RMD is the ultimate father figure and I’m so impressed by this sincere message. Pay close attention to every line.

He wrote:

Dear Son,
I’m writing to you today because there is no day “internationally” set aside for the “boy child”, so, tired of looking on in horror as you constantly shock and embarrass me, this is from daddy to you.

I’m shocked at how many of you carry yourselves here on social media. I am shocked at the things you L O L at. I am worried at the way you speak
to and about women.

I am frightened at the kinds of things that inspire and motivate you.

I am concerned that the women who get your attention are not the virtuous, brilliant types but the frivolous party, skimpily clad ones.

I am disappointed to see that the pictures you fall over yourselves double tapping are not the inspirational quotes or of clean, beautiful modest women but of women with their breasts, thighs and bottoms spilling over.

I cringe at how many of you blatantly use swear and curse words at women like it makes you cool.

I am distraught to see that many of you insinuate that a man who loves and stays with one woman is a wimp, that a man who publicly displays and speaks about his love for his woman is a “jew man”, that a man who is more interested in deeply spiritual and intellectual pursuits should be shamed…

I am worried son, deeply worried.

My dear son, being uncouth, indecent, unintelligent is NOT cool and contrary to what you think, the man who stays on social media looking for naked ladies to validate, smart people to shame, brilliant people to tear down, celebrities to attack are NOT men but little boys battling low self esteem issues.

A real man loves God and is not ashamed to show it. He loves and respects women. He does not ask for nudes and if any misguided woman sends him her nudes respectfully deletes it and not use it as a blackmailing tool. A real man reads, yes, he reads a lot. He picks his mentors wisely, thinks before he speaks and reads his comments over and over before he hits send.

Dear son, do not let the “anonymity” of social media make you a fool rather use it to shine and be kind, reasonable and sensible at all times because that is the man I desire to see you be.

Deep and impressive right? This message should be spread and taught to every son. This is wisdom in a beautiful form!

However I believe a major part of how youths behave these days falls on our parents, society and government. Train your child in the way to go and he won’t depart from it. Is that not what the bible says? So the major responsibility of clearing these problems falls on the adults.

What part of this message do you agree or disagree with? Do you believe this message deserves speech of the year? Is RMD in the best position to give this sort of advice? Let’s talk below. The best part of posting here is getting your feedback and comments. What are your thoughts about this post?

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Thanks for stopping by ❤


    1. He’s such a cool father figure. Males should pick something from his message. I’m glad you saw this here. I just shared on an impulse lol.

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