How do you do? Great I hope. Sharing five reasons being single is cool in today’s post. As usual, this is an humorous post, don’t take things too serious. Now single isn’t being lonely but like resting the heart until you’re ready to love again. Being single or not doesn’t assure your happiness, it comes from within. This post is not a medium to justify my state of singleness lol. Okay maybe it is but really there are reasons why being single is cool.
1. You get to spend more time with friends and family.
Relationship can take up your schedule and make it difficult to hang out with friends, causing less closeness between you and your friends. Unless you’re really good at balancing, relationship could cause attention issues. Some people put some much attention on their partner that their lives practically becomes their partner’s. Spending more time with my family has made me discover so much more about them that I didn’t know before.
2. More focus on work.
When single, you tend to have more energy, time and focus for your work. All that time used for calling and texting back and forth can be utilized into productive work. Some people even make time to stalk their partner’s social media activities! Like come on. Being emotionally stable also makes it easy for you to concentrate on work. I can personally testify to this. I haven’t been as productive when dating as I am now.
3. Less drama and more freedom.
Relationships can be pretty demanding as you’re required to update your partner on everything going on with you even when you’re not in the frame of mind to. Like I always say, dating is practically like carrying someone’s burden with yours and you have to make sacrifices too. It takes quite a lot to maintain a relationship and if you aren’t ready for that, you should stay single. You can pretty much do whatever you want to when you’re single. Go on dates whenever you want to, hang out till whatever hour you want. No questions like “Who were you with?”, “Why were you touching that guy that way?” And the funniest, going to sleep peacefully knowing no one is cheating on you. Some partners can be so needy, insecure and demanding.
4. You get to save money.
Fellas in the house, think of the feeling of saving all that money you would have spent at the movies or shopping with bae hmmm? You get to save money for important things. With what the current recession in Nigeria is saying and the price of food in restaurants ehn! Just save for a better you. Get a better car? Build your own house? Expand your business? Start a project? Think about it.
5. Discover new interests
Being single actually opens people’s eyes to new interests. Discover painting, learn a new skill, try cooking or even start working out (especially if your last relationship ended on with issues about your body). You can travel if and when you want to. Who knew I’d start blog consultation? Being single really brings new interest.
In conclusion, being single is not an achievement same way being in a relationship is not. The main thing is to be happy in all you do. I see no sense in being in a relationship you’re not happy in. Also, I see no reason you shouldn’t go for whoever it is you like or want to date as long as the feelings are mutual. If you think being single is not cool, you should talk to those dating and get their opinion of the downsides. Singles in the house! Which of these points can you relate to? Are these points true or not? What’s your best part of being single or dating? The best part of posting here is getting your feedback and comments. What are your thoughts about this post?
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